Sending a wedding gift into a Korean context from the US is one of the situations where American instincts are actively wrong. Registries are uncommon, physical gifts are less standard than in the US, and the amount and format of a cash gift carries meaning. Getting it right matters more than getting it expensive.
Cash is the norm, and the amount is signaled
Guests give cash in a white envelope at the venue, and the amounts follow rough conventions: about 50,000 KRW for a colleague or acquaintance, 100,000 KRW for a friend, and higher for close friends and family. Odd-numbered amounts in units of 50,000 and 100,000 are the standard. Sending cash from abroad is usually handled by asking an attending relative to give it on your behalf.
When a physical gift is appropriate
Close family and very close friends do sometimes give an item alongside or instead of cash, often household goods, a quality kitchen item or something for the couple's new home. For an overseas giver, a well-chosen physical gift can be more memorable than a transfer, but it should be sent to the home rather than brought to the venue.
The overseas timing problem
Korean weddings are often scheduled with two to three months of notice, and the venue day is packed with tight ceremony slots. A gift arriving at the venue is a logistical problem for the couple. Sending to their home address before or after the ceremony is both easier and more welcome. If you are sending from abroad, aim for the gift to arrive in the two weeks after the ceremony rather than the week before, since the couple is dealing with the venue and often travelling immediately afterward.
Buying Korean goods for a US wedding
The reverse case is more common than people expect: traditional items such as a hanbok accessory, ceremonial goods or a lacquerware piece ordered from Korea for a Korean American wedding. These are specialist purchases that generally require a Korean-side buyer, and they need six to eight weeks of lead time because many are made to order.
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Is it rude to send only cash from abroad?
Not at all, it is the expected form. What matters is that it arrives through someone attending, or as a transfer with a message, rather than being handled awkwardly at the venue.
Do Korean couples use registries?
It is becoming more common among younger couples but is still far from standard. Ask rather than assuming one exists.
How long do made-to-order traditional items take?
Commonly four to eight weeks for hanbok and ceremonial pieces, plus shipping. This is the category where late ordering causes the most problems.